For some chronic pain sufferers it is downright hard to live daily. For others, the hardships are of their own making because of their negative attitudes and non-acceptance of their pain condition. And still others seem to have that effervescent joy no matter what pain they are going through. They may have continuous pain that no one can see, but their smile would never make you think they are suffering at all. I am not speaking of a fake smile, either. I am talking about a genuine, honest to goodness smile that radiates from within. You know the type. You probably also know the opposite type I described above. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Now, the question is, which type are you?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n I want to be the type of person that people could scarcely tell how badly I hurt…and mean it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Instead, I was reminded that I DO have Fibromyalgia and it is NOT going away. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n The change in atmosphere did me good in other ways, but I still had to pace myself, take Ibuprofen as needed, and rest often. But through it all, I did my best to smile…a genuine smile, which I did have readily available. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Acceptance of the medical condition you have is vital to how you will get through each day.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n My prayer is that you find peace along your journey and discover the smile that is waiting to rise to the surface of your face! <\/p>\n\n\n\n May Jesus help you find your way to Him…and that smile! <\/p>\n\n\n\n God Bless- <\/p>\n\n\n\n ~The Fibro Momma of Ten <\/p>\n\n\n\n No where is it written that life is easy because you have no physical pain. No where is it written that life is easy because you don’t.\ufeff<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1255,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[7],"tags":[45,46,44],"class_list":["post-1261","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-fibromyalgia-pain","tag-arizona","tag-fibromyalgia-pain","tag-tucson","without-featured-image"],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/thefibro-lupusbutterfly.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Tucson.jpg","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/ph40Aj-kl","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":1706,"url":"https:\/\/thefibro-lupusbutterfly.com\/?p=1706","url_meta":{"origin":1261,"position":0},"title":"Proud While In Pain","author":"Fibro Momma of 10","date":"April 14, 2026","format":false,"excerpt":"I do my best not to dwell on my pain. Some days are easier than others. I have dealt with Fibromyalgia and Lupus for over a decade and pretty much know what affects me. Some days, though, are a beast! During the past decade, I graduated 5 more kiddos from\u2026","rel":"","context":"Similar post","block_context":{"text":"Similar post","link":""},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thefibro-lupusbutterfly.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/20190603_180218-1-e1559603869603-480x640.jpg?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1","width":350,"height":200},"classes":[]},{"id":1648,"url":"https:\/\/thefibro-lupusbutterfly.com\/?p=1648","url_meta":{"origin":1261,"position":1},"title":"Frustration with Fibromyalgia and Lupus","author":"Fibro Momma of 10","date":"March 26, 2026","format":false,"excerpt":"I am beyond frustrated about chronic pain.\u00a0 \u00a0 I never know what a day will bring forth... here is an example of my week so far... This past Monday, I had a horrible pain day.\u00a0 I could barely move, my brain wasn't working well and I had what I call\u2026","rel":"","context":"Similar post","block_context":{"text":"Similar post","link":""},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thefibro-lupusbutterfly.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/20260326_092321-480x640.jpg?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1","width":350,"height":200},"classes":[]},{"id":1756,"url":"https:\/\/thefibro-lupusbutterfly.com\/?p=1756","url_meta":{"origin":1261,"position":2},"title":"Recovering from a Routine Change is Rough when you have Fibromyalgia and\/or Lupus","author":"Fibro Momma of 10","date":"April 29, 2026","format":false,"excerpt":"Keeping a routine is crucial when you suffer from Lupus and Fibromyalgia. It can take days to recover from a routine change when you have Fibromyalgia and\/or Lupus. When your routine changes, the pain levels soar, energy levels decrease and cognitive issues begin. The first clue my body gives me\u2026","rel":"","context":"Similar post","block_context":{"text":"Similar post","link":""},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thefibro-lupusbutterfly.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/20260429_100334-480x640.jpg?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1","width":350,"height":200},"classes":[]},{"id":1682,"url":"https:\/\/thefibro-lupusbutterfly.com\/?p=1682","url_meta":{"origin":1261,"position":3},"title":"Feeling run-over, but with no regrets","author":"Fibro Momma of 10","date":"April 9, 2026","format":false,"excerpt":"Yesterday I did a thing and today I feel the affects of it. Did I know when I set out to drive 1.5 hours (each way) to visit my grandkiddos yesterday that I would feel completely run over today?\u00a0 \u00a0 Well, yes and no.\u00a0 Yes, because ever since Fibromyalgia entered\u2026","rel":"","context":"Similar post","block_context":{"text":"Similar post","link":""},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thefibro-lupusbutterfly.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/Screenshot_20250519_063915_Chrome.jpg?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1","width":350,"height":200},"classes":[]},{"id":1862,"url":"https:\/\/thefibro-lupusbutterfly.com\/?p=1862","url_meta":{"origin":1261,"position":4},"title":"Spinal Issues and Fibro and Lupus","author":"Fibro Momma of 10","date":"May 14, 2026","format":false,"excerpt":"Lately my spine has felt more on fire than usual. It hurts to turn my head, lift my arms, and walk. I cannot get comfy sleeping, either. I have trouble reaching up or down without discomfort and I am keenly aware of the pain all day. I have been doing\u2026","rel":"","context":"Similar post","block_context":{"text":"Similar post","link":""},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thefibro-lupusbutterfly.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/turtle.webp?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1","width":350,"height":200},"classes":[]},{"id":612,"url":"https:\/\/thefibro-lupusbutterfly.com\/?p=612","url_meta":{"origin":1261,"position":5},"title":"Fibromyalgia and the Guilt Complex","author":"fibropage1","date":"September 23, 2017","format":false,"excerpt":"You may have read on other blogs about how some people with Fibromyalgia lovingly tell friends and family that they cannot attend an event or host a gathering and bow-out \"gracefully.\" In this post I we will speak about the realities of the guilt involved by doing this and its\u2026","rel":"","context":"In "Fibromyalgia Family Life"","block_context":{"text":"Fibromyalgia Family Life","link":"https:\/\/thefibro-lupusbutterfly.com\/?cat=21"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thefibro-lupusbutterfly.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/3546ea813f79a4b657ac2cb8ad1ff0c7-fibromyalgia-quotes-chronic-illness.jpg?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1","width":350,"height":200},"classes":[]}],"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thefibro-lupusbutterfly.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1261","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thefibro-lupusbutterfly.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thefibro-lupusbutterfly.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thefibro-lupusbutterfly.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thefibro-lupusbutterfly.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1261"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/thefibro-lupusbutterfly.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1261\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thefibro-lupusbutterfly.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1255"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thefibro-lupusbutterfly.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1261"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thefibro-lupusbutterfly.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1261"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thefibro-lupusbutterfly.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1261"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
I recently went to Arizona for eight days. I went for many reasons, but while there, I secretly wanted to wake up one morning and have all the pain be gone. You know, due to the fresh air, the climate, the fact that I had no obligations or stress to speak of…maybe one of those reasons would cause my Fibromyalgia to just evaporate and drift away on the peaceful winds of the mountain air. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Unfortunately, I am not able to report this to have happened. <\/p>\n\n\n\n![\"Springtime](\"https:\/\/thefibro-lupusbutterfly.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Tucson.jpg\")