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Yes.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Did I have times where I could barely walk? Yes.<\/p>\n<p>Did I struggle with the ups and downs of chair sitting? Yes.<\/p>\n<p>Did I have a lot of stressful times? Yes.<\/p>\n<h3>But through it all, I managed daily living because my focus was on my husband and not on me.\u00a0<\/h3>\n<p>When my sweet Marine Corp Reserve son stopped in to see me after a drill weekend, he blessed me with a much-needed back massage. That was heavenly!! I cannot describe the blessing it was!!\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>My husband has had many bumps in the recovery road with Graft vs. Host Disease (GvHD) and multiple hiccups with health issues here and there. We are managing daily and life continues to move forward. We are thankful the transplant was a success and that the GvHD is being managed.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3>Today I am drawing a line and plan to step forward and not look backward; only look to the future!<\/h3>\n<p>That said, I continue to manage my Fibro as best as I can. I will be making future posts about this. Also, please like my page on FB!\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Have a blessed day!<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n ","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This website has been sorely neglected for a host of reasons&#8230;and I apologize for that. 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