I am so done with family that come across as understanding and sympathetic about these conditions I deal with 24\/7 and then judge and gossip behind my back. <\/p>\n
Fact.<\/p>\n
I mean, they see me up and doing, still hosting, still smiling, still moving… and then, once I finally give in to my body and sit for a minute, or lean back on a heating pad to get spine relief to continue on, they think I am being dramatic or seeking attention. <\/p>\n
How about them, who have done nothing but sit the entire time they’ve been here. Am I not allowed to sit, too???<\/p>\n
It is so exhausting being silently judged by family for how I feel. <\/p>\n
How about some thanks that you just ate a meal you didn’t have to cook and sat at a clean table you didn’t have to clean? <\/p>\n
Get off your self-righteous pedestal and stop judging me. Or worse… stop the judgement right in front of me while you are texting another person in the same room about me.<\/p>\n
Seriously, grow up. <\/p>\n
Rant over. <\/p>\n
~Thefibro-lupusbutterfly <\/p>\n\n\n ","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
I am so done with family that come across as understanding and sympathetic about these conditions I deal with 24\/7 and then judge and gossip behind my back. Fact. I mean, they see me up and doing, still hosting, still smiling, still moving… and then, once I finally give in to my body and sit… Continue reading Venting Frustrations of a Fibro-Lupus Warrior-take 1<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1872","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","without-featured-image"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t