{"id":853,"date":"2018-01-21T12:15:20","date_gmt":"2018-01-21T12:15:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thefibro-lupusbutterfly.com\/?p=853"},"modified":"2018-02-03T15:32:48","modified_gmt":"2018-02-03T15:32:48","slug":"is-fibromyalgia-progressive","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thefibro-lupusbutterfly.com\/?p=853","title":{"rendered":"Is Fibromyalgia Progressive?"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote>\n<h3><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">This month marks the 3-year anniversary of my diagnosis with Fibromyalgia. I wish I could say that the past 3 years I have stayed the way I was at my diagnosis. However, my experience has led me to conclude that Fibromyalgia is a progressive condition<\/span>.<\/span><\/h3>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>When I was first diagnosed, my pain levels were at a relatively high scale that ran in waves throughout the month. I had days where I sometimes even forgot that I&#8217;d been diagnosed. However, within a few months it became more frequent and within a year it was every day.<\/p>\n<p>Now, here I am 3 years later, and it is a moment-by-moment, throughout-my-day-type-of-pain that I cannot escape. The diagnosis is ever before me and everything I do is a task in itself.<\/p>\n<p>How do I survive? By thinking positively and making daily short-term goals that are attainable.\u00a0Even if it&#8217;s just getting up and moving.\u00a0 By making simple goals (and listing them out on paper) it helps me feel like I&#8217;ve accomplished something.<\/p>\n<p>Before Fibromyalgia, I thrived on accomplishing tasks throughout the day. I guess you could say I was a lister. I liked making lists of things that needed to be done.\u00a0 It made me feel good when those items were crossed off the list, knowing that I had done them. I felt self-gratification in knowing that the jobs were done. At the end of each day, I could look back and feel proud of my accomplishments and feel that a restful evening was well-earned. I was never the type to procrastinate and put things off until another day.<\/p>\n<p>Enter Fibromyalgia.<\/p>\n<p>Now,\u00a0 I fight my old self continually. I fight the guilt of feeling like I should be doing more in a day. I constantly have to give it to God and ask Him to guide my steps.<\/p>\n<p>Psalm 61:2-3 says &#8220;<em>From the end of the earth will I cry unto thee, when my heart is overwhelmed lead me to the rock that is higher than I.\u00a0 For thou hast been a shelter for me, and a strong tower from the enemy.&#8221;<\/em> (In that verse, I equate &#8220;enemy&#8221; with Fibro)<\/p>\n<p>I DO know the Lord and I lean on Him daily.<\/p>\n<p>In my experience, I feel that Fibromyalgia is a progressive condition. It has slowed me down in ways I never thought possible. Actually, things I didn&#8217;t even realize I took for granted like walking, getting up from a chair, washing my hair in the shower, etc. are all things that need to be done, but cause me pain, and I do not take them for granted any longer.<\/p>\n<p>My soul yearns for spring and the warm sunshine so I can walk my one acre apple orchard again. As hard as it is for me to walk like that, I know it is something that I must endure. I cannot become completely sedentary. Walking is still a gift and I look forward to the warmer weather again.<\/p>\n<p>On these cold, blustery, overcast and bleak winter days I do admit my soul can get just as cloudy as the weather on my life. It is during these bleak months that I find that I lean on God even more for a lighter spirit within me.<\/p>\n<p>I have learned to be a &#8220;glass half full&#8221; sort of gal. Learning to &#8220;keep on the sunny-side of life.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"857\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/thefibro-lupusbutterfly.com\/?attachment_id=857\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/thefibro-lupusbutterfly.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/20180121_115925-e1516557862393.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"3024,4032\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;1.7&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;SM-G930V&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1516535788&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;4.2&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;400&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.1&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"20180121_115925\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/thefibro-lupusbutterfly.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/20180121_115925-e1516557862393-960x1280.jpg\" class=\"aligncenter size-thumbnail wp-image-857\" src=\"https:\/\/thefibro-lupusbutterfly.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/20180121_115925-e1516557862393-480x640.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"480\" height=\"640\" srcset=\"https:\/\/thefibro-lupusbutterfly.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/20180121_115925-e1516557862393-480x640.jpg 480w, https:\/\/thefibro-lupusbutterfly.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/20180121_115925-e1516557862393-595x793.jpg 595w, https:\/\/thefibro-lupusbutterfly.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/20180121_115925-e1516557862393-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/thefibro-lupusbutterfly.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/20180121_115925-e1516557862393-960x1280.jpg 960w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 480px) 100vw, 480px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Gloomy days match gloomy moods, so I need to be happy, I need to choose the brighter side of my situation&#8230;and so do you!<\/p>\n<p>Happy January and God bless!<\/p>\n<p>~The Fibro Momma of Ten<\/p>\n ","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This month marks the 3-year anniversary of my diagnosis with Fibromyalgia. I wish I could say that the past 3 years I have stayed the way I was at my diagnosis. However, my experience has led me to conclude that Fibromyalgia is a progressive condition. When I was first diagnosed, my pain levels were at&hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/thefibro-lupusbutterfly.com\/?p=853\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Is Fibromyalgia Progressive?<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[16,31],"class_list":["post-853","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-fibromyagia","tag-progressive","without-featured-image"],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/ph40Aj-dL","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":1706,"url":"https:\/\/thefibro-lupusbutterfly.com\/?p=1706","url_meta":{"origin":853,"position":0},"title":"Proud While In Pain","author":"Fibro Momma of 10","date":"April 14, 2026","format":false,"excerpt":"I do my best not to dwell on my pain. 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